Building Stronger Families Toolkit 

 

 

This toolkit has been developed to support practitioners who work with parents in Somerset. We see this toolkit evolving over the next 12 months as we work with you.

 

 

 

APRIL 2024 UPDATED Reducing Parental Conflict toolkit.docx

 

 

 

To make the most out of this toolkit, Ruth James delivers toolkit training which covers:
•    Understanding the different types of conflict and how they differ from domestic abuse
•    Understanding the impact of conflict on children and parents
•    How to talk confidently with parents about their relationship - whether together or separated
•    An overview of this Somerset toolkit
•    Understanding when to use relationship counselling + co-parenting every day referrals
•    Support for you, including the RELATE online chat facility

To find out more, please email:

 

 

 

Click on the link for parent referral form and healthy relationships questionnaire - Somerset children & young people : Health & Wellbeing : Parent Referral Form And Healthy Relationships Questionnaire (cypsomersethealth.org) 

 

 

 

 

Practitioner worksheets

Together Parents (TP)

Separated Parents (SP)

SHEET 1 Questions to ask parents about relationships 

SHEET 1 TP Information about Relate’s“One session therapy” and “Co parenting every day” .docx Quick questionnaire for separated parents.docx

 

 

 

SHEET 2 Difference between unhealthy conflict DA

Sheet 2 TP Parent Relationship Spectrum.docx

  SHEET 1 SP Co parenting communications.docx

 

 

 

SHEET 3 Relationship Counselling CoPE explained links

SHEET 3 TP Managing emotions and “Name it to tame it.docx SHEET 2 SP Coping as a parent post separation.docx

 

 

 

SHEET 4 Managing Emotions

SHEET 4 TP Relationship Scaling Tool.docx  SHEET 3 SP My circle of support.docx

 

 

 

SHEET 5 relationship Scaling tool

SHEET 5 TP Stages of a Relationship.docx

  SHEET 4 SP Helping your children cope 3 pages.docx

 

 

 

SHEET 6 Stages of relationship

SHEET 6 TP Understanding our stuff.docx

 

 

 

 

SHEET 7 Stuff happens model worksheet

SHEET 7 TP A Typical Day.docx

 

 

 

 

SHEET 8 A Typical Day SHEET 8 TP What we do in our relationship.docx

 

 

 

 

SHEET 9 What we do in our relationship

SHEET 9 TP Understanding HOW you argue.docx

 

 

 

 

SHEET 10 Arguing Styles

SHEET 10 TP I messages.docx

 

 

 

 

SHEET 11 I messages

SHEET 11 TP Tone text and timing.docx

 

 

 

 

SHEET 12 FREE Oneplusone courses

 SHEET 12 TP Parenting styles are on a spectrum and different parenting styles can cause conflict.docx

 

 

 

 

 

SHEET 13 TP Having a conversation with parents about relationships.docx